What do you think about this cute baby?
From the newspapers lately, we noticed that baby dumping had become a hot issue in Malaysia. Nowadays when we read the newspaper, we can see many innocent babies had been dumped and buried alive and not surprising that the numbers are escalating. I feel very pity for those new born baby and angry at the same time as many women wish to pregnant and have a baby but actually they are not capable. They wish to have their own children badly.
Obviously we can know that those who dump babies do so because of desperation and normally young girls. They scare to be discriminated by others and scold by their parents after the incident is revealed, so they decided to dump the baby. This is actually what the government feels sad and worry about. Due to the baby dumping's problem are escalating, government had set up a ‘school of hope' for those unmarried pregnant teenagers. As we know, government setting up this school is to curb cases of illicit sex among baby dumping among the teenagers.
I personally do not agree with this policy. This is because this policy gave those teenagers have a wrong insight as they might thought once they get pregnant, they can straight away go to the 'school of hope' and give birth instead of get married and be responsible in their behaviour. So, setting up school of hope just like encouraging teenager to have sex with their partner without care or worry about the consequence. This might cause promiscuity among the teenager.
Recently I had read an article about a girl have sex with three guys at the roof of an apartment. What a ridiculous behaviour? And the girl died from falling down from the roof when she escapes once the police appeared. What I want to mention is the girl was only 12 years old, if I’m not mistaken. This is still considering as under age. Her life was ruined by the word of SEX at the same time implicated a baby life.
Have they ever thought of having sex in the young age often ruin their chance of having a good career and a bright future? There is a research and discovered that most of the western country's teenager had lost their virginity among aged 14 to 18. They consider themselves as an adult. This is totally different view from our Asian country. We consider it as destruction of the culture and civilisation. Despite I'm a quite open-minded person, but I totally disagree with their -western concept and thinking.
As we noticed, prevention is better than cure. At these critical and harsh phenomena, government, parents, education figures and public should start to look at this issue seriously. Especially parents, they should spend more time with their children and keep an eye on them. Talk and communicate with them sporadically. During their teenage years, what they need is care and guidance.
Parents should talk with them patiently and it will gradually build up the relationship between one another. As a result, parents have a big role in making sure that their kids don't become a social and school dropouts. It's a fact that behind every champion and good kids are very supportive parents. Good parents will produce a good product. Love your parents, love your child, love your baby, love the earth and love everything that should be loved.
Simply say that, no one can help us but ourselves. I think many of you will agree with this statement. No big deal, just want to express my feeling that had buried in my heart for such a long time. Last but not least, " Before someone's tomorrow has been taken away, cherish those you love, appreciate them today.''
Say no to SEX before married. It will ruin your life and........
CUTE BABY
